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♡Happy♡Mei.May~Life With No Tears.oOThis Summer, Let's go & have some fun~ My love is gonna to been seen. ♡ August 15 Man VS WomanLet's have a look and laugh~ haha
 NICKNAMES If Laura, Suzanne, Debra and Rose go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Suzanne, Debra and Rose. If Mike, Charlie, Bob and John go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla, Peanut-Head and Scrappy EATING OUT When the bill arrives, Mike, Charlie, Bob and John will each throw in $20, even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have anything smaller, and none will actually admit they want change back. When the girls get their bill, out come the pocket calculators. MONEY A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants. A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't want. BATHROOMS A man has six items in his bathroom: a toothbrush, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel from the Holiday Inn. The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337. A man would not be able to identify most of these items. ARGUMENTS A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument. CATS Women love cats. Men say they love cats, but when women aren't looking, men kick cats. FUTURE A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. SUCCESS A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man. MARRIAGE A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does. DRESSING UP A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the garbage, answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail. A man will dress up for weddings and funerals NATURAL Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed. Women somehow deteriorate during the night. OFFSPRING Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams. A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house. July 19 To RealizeDear friends:
To realize the value of ONE YEAR 想知道一整年的价值 ask the student who has failed a class 就去问被当过的学生 To realize the value of ONE MONTH 想知道一个月的价值 ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby 就去问曾经早产的母亲 To realize the value of ONE WEEK 想知道一个礼拜的价值 ask the editor of a weekly newspaper 就去问周报的编辑 To realize the value of ONE HOUR 想知道一个小时的价值 ask the lovers who are waiting to meet 就去问等待见面的情侣 To realize the value of ONE MINUTE 想知道一分钟的价值 ask a person who missed the train 就去问刚错过火车的人 To realize the value of ONE SECOND 想知道一秒钟的价值 ask a person who just avoided accident 就去问刚闪过一场车祸的人 To realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND 想知道百分之一秒的价值 ask the person who won a silver medel in the Olympics 就去问奥运会银牌的得主 Treasure every moment that you have! 珍惜你所拥有的每一个瞬间 Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery. 昨天已成为历史.明日却依然是谜. Today is a gift. 今天是珍贵的礼物. That's why it is called present*!! 那就是它为什么被称作"当下"的原因. Show your friends how much you care... 让你的朋友知道你有多在乎他们. October 23 Stand up for my briefWhen I got the chance to come here and made my decision to come to study here, I know I have no chance looking back, but try my best in these 3 years. My parents and friends gave me a lot of support and I could read great expectations from their eyes.
Although there were some people thought that the reason I came here not continue high school and university in China is that I afraid my exam result could not reach the level of the good university. Never try, never know. So who knows? And now, I can tell those people that I’ve learned much more things than the knowledge they copy from the so-called No.1 University!
I know I came here alone without my any relatives or old good friends, the most important thing is my self-confident and belief. In this new life, I have met a lot of difficulties. Every time I faced them, I told myself I should standing up for my belief and conviction no matter how difficult they would be.
Firstly it’s the problem of language. Some Chinese teacher may speak Chinese to me, but I know it cannot solve the problem. The only way is my self improvement. I never stop learning English since I came here. I am trying my best to understand lessons and communicate with others. Sometimes I feel weak to express and the teacher let me speak in Chinese, I say “no, let me try, I can do.” Now I still feel my English is weak and it make negative impact to my course study. Maybe sometimes my skill and technique are not worse than my local classmates, but while doing project, the understanding and express ideas make the gap. I felt sad about this. But I believe I can do better. So I am keeping fighting.
Living in a totally new place, I keep touching with different people. Sometimes I feel it’s a nice thing, but sometimes it’s not really. I often felt uncomfortable and upset in the beginning. But now I can handle myself as time passed and I have got used to it. For my course study, Design is my interest, though interior architecture design is not my biggest interest, it’s already much better than Math or Physics or any other technical course for me. This is what I chose to learn, so I must learn it well. The biggest challenge for me is that we must think a lot and solve problems by ourselves. I feel it’s the biggest difference study here than in China. Some of my Chinese friends could not make it and gave up half way. Sometimes I also felt very helpless and disappoint from myself, but when I thought of my conviction, my parents and people who loves me, I don’t want their any disappointment from me, it’s not the aim I come here. So I always cheer up myself. Now, more than 2 years time past, I feel myself grow up, become more mature. I learned a lot during the time studying in Temasek Polytechnic. I learned how to live by myself, I learned how to treat people from different countries, I learned how to plan for my own life, I got to know how difficult to gain money and how much my parents love me.
I will always standing up for my belief. If I don’t, I will just like a small boat flouting on the huge sea and no direction. I know I still not doing so well, I am still fighting. ^ ^  June 07 We are always fighting!实习的这2个月，我整个人从身体到精神上都一直是累的。 以为5月底实习结束会很放松很轻松，没想到一系列的事情发生。 预料到的，没有预料到的，甚至完全出乎意料让我一时不能接受的，都在上个星期发生了。
首先，我们一直在考虑在找房子准备搬家的时候，突然得到房东消息要我们6月1号之前搬走。 当时是5月24号晚上，要在不到一个星期的时间内找到合适的房子，谈好所有事情。 并且白天我们要照常上班，不能影响工作和学习的情况下。 这个压力真的很大，时间是相当的紧迫。 我们房东是个很好说话的人，突然讲这样坚决狠心的话让我和舍友兔子好不能接受。 问了以后才知道原来都是中介搞的鬼。 为了这笔中介费能尽快到手，居然做出这样只顾自己利益不考虑别人处境的事情。 钱真的这么重要么？ ！！！ 我和兔子都义愤填膺，心里的火没办法熄。 那天晚上兔子不停的在骂人，拿她的双节棍在客厅发泄。 我给阿伟打电话，听到他耐心的讲解和安慰，心情才平静了一些。 。。。
接着是我公司老板要我多上一个星期的班。
以为26号那半天班是最后的半天班，28号去学校交LOG BOOK & SIP REPORT了后就摆脱了实习生活。 然后可以尽心尽力用所有的方法尽所有的可能找到住处。 突然要我多做一个星期，说起码得把眼前这个PROJECT做完了。 唉~ 好无奈啊~ 于是拜一去学校写REPORT，还赶去公司拿LOG BOOK因为老板要写评语。 忙得差不多了说去交REPORT给老师，却得到同学的通知说拜三才交。 没办法，拜二给老板请假，又继续花心思把REPORT写得厚厚一本才上交了。
第2天，我们找房子有点希望了，晚上下班去看房。 （这期间我和兔子一有空就打电话找房子。)
其实那房间还有很多地方我们都不满意，可是在这非常时期，我们没办法考虑那么多了。 于是决定了，第二天给定金。 因为前面那个不要脸的中介的关系，我们对中介没有好感。 就同学的意见，由兔子出马去和房东商量，不用中介，我们直接跟她谈。 房东也答应了。说星期六九可以搬进去。 这下我们心情终于轻松下来了。 五月也结束了。
星期六上午我怀着亢奋的心情上了真正的最后半天班。 中午还特意打电话给新房东确定下午我们就搬过去，房东说没问题。 于是下午赶回家收拾行李。 兔子前夜跟别人玩得太晚回家，我们吃了中饭她就说要睡觉。 我更是想要睡觉。。。貌似2个月都没睡过饱觉了。 可是我还得收拾东西，马上就搬了，帮我们搬家的男同学也叫好了。 啊 ~~~~~~~~~ 我的东西怎么这么多阿。。。 下午5点，终于收拾好了的时候，兔子打电话给新房东打声招呼。
我还在房间检查有没有拿掉的东西。 兔子叫我，说新房东那女的说房间不租给我们了，租给另外的人。 我傻眼了。什么？ 什么？怎么可能？ 才隔几个小时阿？！ 兔子说是真的，她也不相信，但是那女的就是这么说的。 这怎么可能？ 租房子这么严肃的事情哪能说不租就不租的？！ 我也把电话打过去，打了几遍就是没有人接。 疯了~~ 看来是真的了。。 我一时还接受不了：兔子，这不是幻觉吧？ 兔子眼光呆滞地看着我，继而大骂：***！ 哪有这样的人啊！***！！！ 这消息如晴天霹雳般降临在我们身上，可是我们不得不接受，第一次遭受这样的打击。 接着是沉静。。。 事情还是得解决，帮我们搬东西的男生都在客厅等着。
于是我们把他们全部叫进房间，开会讨论解决方法。 开始的时候我们就都打电话，希望能尽快找到住的地方。 有的同学就说如果找不到的话可以暂住他们家，他们可以睡地上。 每个人都在想办法。 患难见真情，我突然觉得在异国他乡有这么一帮朋友同甘共苦真的是很难得。 最后是兔子的学弟--晓阳同学找到最可行的方案。 晓阳的同学是福建人，一家人在新加坡住了3，4年。 他们家有间房打算出租，家里人都忙所以没管这事。 于是晓阳赶紧打电话给他那个福建同学，也就是现在我们住的这家的儿子。 那位同学也马上打给他妈妈确定。 也许是这位善良的母亲同情我们的遭遇吧，没有见过我们的人就答应了。 我们心里的石头终于落地了。 这个时候天差不多已经黑了。 我们都还没有吃晚饭，每个人的脸上都是倦容。 但是所有的人都决定先帮我们搬家。 4趟TAXI才搬完所有的行李。
那些男生虽然嘴上说：你们女生东西怎么这么多阿？ 可是看得出心里没有一点埋怨，行动上就更不用说了。 我再次领悟了“出门靠朋友” 这句话是多么准确。 晚上九点了，我们讨论着去哪里吃饭。
男生们饿得不行，说一定要吃火锅才行，绝对吃到火锅店赚不了钱。 我倒是觉得自己已经饿过了，没有什么胃口了。 回家见到屋主，也就是那位善良的母亲。
她说真的是很突然，但是大家都是中国人么，在外应该要互相帮忙的。 晚上我们就先帮他们整理打扫，腾出房间，再把我们的行李放进去。 一直忙到半夜快2点了。。。还有东西没整理好。 可是我们真的是累到不行了。。虚脱用来形容很恰当。 洗完澡，另外一张床还没架好，我和兔子就挤一张单人床上，什么话都没说，一分钟就都闭眼了。 虽然累，星期天的早上眼睛还是睁得很早，因为房间还很乱，还有很多事情要尽快办完。
兔子拜一还要上班，有的事一定要尽快解决，有的事必须要她出面。 星期天我们没有找任何人帮忙。 我和兔子跑TM换网线地址，跑旧家拿最后的东西，还屋主钥匙，跑IKEA买电脑桌，回到家还要继续整理。 我们靠我们自己的力量办好所有的事情，又一天下来。 真的真的虚脱了。。。。
下面引用兔子的：
我家女人也是一样~~~仅仅两天她瘦了一圈~~ 这些天她一边加班,一边和我到处跑,还要受老板的气,真的很辛苦. 周日我们去买桌子的时候,我们两个女生,费力地把那么沉的桌子搬上TAXI, 旁边的人看我们是中国人,都冷冷的站着不动,根本不理会我们,更别提帮我们搬. 我的手还擦出一快淤血…………… 那种心凉的感觉已经习惯了,不在乎的是我们,我们能做到的,我们不需要你们同情或者可怜,中国女人都是很棒的!!! 凌晨起床的时候,看到她无力地躺在床上,熟睡中疲惫的面容,真的很心疼~~~ 女人啊,这段时间真是辛苦你了~ 现在我在新家，坐在新的电脑桌前打下这些字，还是会觉得累。 我怎么写这么多还没有写完阿？ 想想前些天经历的这些事，明白了很多道理，觉得自己一下子长大了很多。
*做事不可以用投机取巧的办法，特别是象租房子这样的大事。 *所有的人都是为了自己的利益而生存，每个人都是先考虑自己的利益的。 *当自己的利益受到损害时，只能想办法维护，没办法怪别人。 *不管遇到怎样的事情都要理智冷静。 *要有做好面对一切突发事件的准备. *不要相信不认识的人或者不熟的人的口头承诺。 *任何人都可以值得相信也不可信，要有防范坏人的心，更要相信世界上有好人。 *学会独立，学会一切事情自己解决。 *多交朋友，能同甘共苦的朋友。 还有一些无法用言语表达的感受。。。
就让它们在我心里陪伴我激励我让我越来越成熟吧。。 最后，感谢所在此期间帮助我和兔子以及在心里支持我们的人!
特别感谢晓阳同学和任劳任怨帮我们搬家的男同学们！ 兔子，这些天我们都非常非常辛苦了。
剩下的一点事情我来搞定。你放心好好上班吧。 以上的这些我都没有告诉父母，妈妈打电话我的时候我和兔子正准备去IKEA买电脑桌。 她问我吃饭没，我想都没想就说吃了。其实自己还不晓得她是问中饭还是晚饭。 是的。父母在国内牵挂着我们，我宁愿自己辛苦也不要他们干着急。 放心吧~ 亲爱的爸爸妈妈，你们的女儿一定会把自己照顾得很好过得很好的！
还是那句经典的话：
这条路很艰难，但是我们一定会坚定不移地精彩地走完。 we are always fighting! April 18 My SIPHey~Friends,I'm here to tell u My feeling about my SIP so far. My SIP company is a small one located in Enous.
In the first week........ Then, of course I met new people and got to know new friends!
Except these, I found SIP is a quite different experience from school study. Ya~Anyway,I am Fighting! PS: Shan Hu went back school already. Sad…. 另外加上一张一个高手的RENDERING图
WHEN CAN MY RENDERING CATCH THIS KIND OF LEVEL?
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